Divorced dad finally speaks out to save other men from making the same mistakes...

Don’t Be Cheated from Every Single Thing You’ve Ever Wanted and Worked Hard For…

   (#1 Rated Divorce Guide For The Last 4 Years)

It’s Just Not Right and You Deserve Better      (and I know I can help you...I've helped over 10,000 men)

Dear Friend, (and trust me when I say you will need one)

If you are one of the 1% of men who actually believe they can navigate the waters of divorce with simple and effective adult conversation with your (soon to be) ex, this site is not for you. In fact, call a lawyer immediately and sit down and prepare to have your assets (and sanity) walk right out the door.

However, if you are among the remaining 99%, please listen carefully because...

…you are about to engage in the fight of your life…

No, you are not asking for it. You may not even want it. But, it is part of your new reality and a very real part of the process you are about to enter.

With just the slightest twist and turn of events in a relationship, a happy marriage can crumble to an ugly, nasty divorce in seconds flat. And, don’t think it can’t happen to you because it can and will…just like it happens to normal ‘nice guys’ every day of the week…every month of the year. History does repeat itself in matters of marriage and divorce. It actually happened to me and I lost everything.

You may or may not remember those affectionate, warm loving feelings you once had as you watched your bride at the alter or the beach or the park on that memorable day. So many details, so much emotion, so many happy memories.

But, If you have found this page, then those memories are fading quickly and happiness turns immediately into very real feelings of pain, disgust, frustration and even bitterness. But, here’s when your bad news just gets worse.

Divorce is about Self Preservation…

Nothing More…

Instinctually, men and women are different and you know it.

Women resort to playing the part of the helpless victim in need of support from their family members (who can be in large numbers like a pack of wolves ready to take you out). They operate off of high emotion. It is in their DNA. And, when the love is lost or worse yet...you decide you want out...well...guess what...that emotion turns to a battle of revenge.

Trust me...there is not a man on the face of the earth who would gladly be in your shoes. Not even for a moment.

Is it wrong? Hell ya...but it doesn't make it any less true.

Men don't think this way. They have a different set of DNA and their mind is thinking...'well..surely she will want to preserve as much capital from the marriage as I do'...'protect the future of our kids education'...'keep more money in our pockets for the long term'. Right?

And, if you are also thinking...'maybe she will just sit down with me and logically just split up what we have together and come to a nice mutual understanding'....boy, we really need to talk...

Here's the cold hard facts...every man better know or you're in for a very rude awakening.

Divorce is unfair, bitter, ugly and nasty...and the process does not favor MEN...

If you are you a man facing divorce...don't worry I can help you.

It is literally shocking to me how many men who are considering divorce have absolutely no plan. Every man ever met that complains about his divorce settlement absolutely did not prepare properly. These people relied on advice from friends, relatives, and their lawyer. If only they had taken the time to educate themselves. It is as if they went into battle without an army. Do not let this be you!

I’ve interviewed so many divorced men...the ones that won (and the losers).  I especially listened to the successful men.  Divorce advice for men can be a very tricky thing, depending on who you choose to listen to. Divorce can either give you a new lease on life or it can leave you in financial ruin for years. How you go through your divorce will have a major impact on the rest of your life. 

Why is it that so many men struggle after a divorce while other men prosper...even thrive?  Fortunately, success leaves clues.  Whenever you take advice from anybody concerning men and divorce, make sure they have actually walked the walk.  I have...in a brutal way.

I'm Throwing You a Life Line...

Question is...Will You Grab It?

I'm not sure what your situation is, but in mine, everything started off cordial and nice, and quickly turned bad from there.  What started off with an agreement with “no lawyers” and “dignity and respect” quickly turned into a 4 year nightmare that devastated everyone involved (except of course the lawyers). There was no guide written for a man to help me prepare for what I was about to go through (financially, mentally, physically)

I’m not a lawyer.  Just a father that suffered through a disastrous divorce and can help men like you avoid the mistakes I made.  And boy did I make a lot of mistakes.  If you can apply any of the advice I’m about to share with you to your situation, I guarantee you are going to save yourself major time and financial headache, and probably most importantly, save your child from the devastation that comes with divorce.  

When It Comes To Divorce Law and You -

Here Are The Facts

• Over 85% percent of divorces are filed by women.  Women know the laws favor them in a divorce.

• Most women file for divorce simply because they're unsatisfied (not because of infidelity or abuse).  Most suffer from a case of "the grass is greener on the other side" complex.

• It's a documented fact that divorce is one of the most stressful things a person can experience (of course I don't have to tell you that).  Most of the stress is caused by all the uncertainty about the future.  Understanding the intricacies of divorce and custody will end the uncertainty and relieve the stress. 

• Too many men walk away from their wife and their assets too.  The goal here is to divorce your wife, not your money, house, or kids! 

• It's a documented fact the kids do better after a divorce when the father has sole or joint custody.  Children suffer when restricted to limited contact with their father.

• It's a fact that less than 2% of custody disputes ever make it to trial.  The system is specifically designed to grind fathers down before the case can be heard by a judge. 

• 65% of clients report dissatisfaction with their divorce attorney (more than any other type of attorney).  Odds are, you'll be one of them if you're not careful.  Don't rely solely on your attorney to get you the best deal.

• In many cases, the mother pushes the father away from the children by filing false abuse claims or interfering with visitation.  This is known as "parent alienation syndrome".  The courts are apathetic to this and often do little to stop it.

First and foremost, I'm a father. A divorced father. Secondly, I'm a successful businessman.  I've spent over 30 years in business and have a knack for getting things done.   This is what I’ve done for you.  I’ve used my business skills to create an “action guide” for men going through a divorce.  I've sold over a thousand of my guides to men just like you who want a fighting chance to win. 

I wrote a detailed book and set of audio tapes about everything I personally learned and after interviewing over 20 men. I wrote the book because I knew I could help men avoid the costly mistakes that I made. I'm not kidding around with you - I learned all this stuff the hard way. You won't find this kind of information in any other book - I guarantee it. This book has helped 1,000+ men end up on the right side of divorce, and save thousands along the way.

One single piece of advice that I can impart upon you can save you thousands of dollars.  I guarantee this.  This is a no-risk deal. If you don't like my book, simply return it and pay zero.  

The book is called “Divorced Dad’s Survival Guide". What Every Man Should Know About How To Survive a Divorce”.  I've also created an audio series for you to listen on your IPod, car, etc.   This is the guide i wish someone had created for me when I was going through my divorce.

What's Inside...A 'Do It Yourself'

Step by Step Divorce Guide

	Chapter 1: Course Overview In this module, I’m going to cover all the main elements of this guide. Whether you are contemplating divorce, going through divorce or simply are a divorced father that wants to be the best for his children, this guide is going to provide you with a road map on how to come out with your dignity and wallet intact.
	Chapter 2: First Things First: Considering Divorce This module will help you figure out where you are in the process of divorcing. The module is going to teach you: How to determine where you are in the process A checklist of things you NEED to consider before going through with divorce The ONE thing I wish I had done differently at this stage Learn to take a mental inventory of things
	Chapter 3: Understanding Separation In this module, I’m going to teach you the most common mistakes men make during this period of separation. The top 5 things you NEED to do, that will save you thousands of dollars down the road Why the legal definition is so critical My ONE big mistake (please don't make this) What your children go through during this phase and how to protect them
	Chapter 4: The Process of Divorce This module is going to walk you through when you’ve made the decision to divorce and what goes on next. Learning how to communicate with your wife Keeping your emotions out of it. Strategies to do this Initial discussions with your wife The Top 5 things you need to be thinking about at What you MUST begin to organize at this point.
	Chapter 5: Arbitration/Mediation In this module, I’ll share with you my personal experience regarding arbitration and what you can expect. I’ll share with you the reasons lawyers hate this option above all others. What makes a great arbitrator How not to get de-railed during this process Keeping the process of mediation going
	Chapter 6: Evaluating the Private Judge Option In my divorce, I went through a private judge. In this module, I’ll teach you: Private Judge 101.  The important things Top 5 things you need to understand before you agree to a private judge Why a private judge can be a very bad decision How to get the most of out a private judge.
	Chapter 7: Lawyers: What to expect. What will surprise you. In this module, I'll go into a lot of detail on divorce lawyers Why divorce lawyers are different than other lawyers Understanding the motives of lawyers How a lawyer is likely to try your case How to keep your divorce lawyer in check One simple mistake cost me $100,000
	Chapter 8: Custody and Your Children In divorce, children are always the unprotected victims, and as such need to be treated with the utmost concern. In this module, I’ll cover What you need to remember about children in divorce What are the most important things you can do as a father? How one mistake cost me custody of my child
	Chapter 9 Strategic Decisions In this module you will learn strategies that will shave years off of unnecessary heartache and financial stress: Holding your cards close. Why this is critical Emotions are your enemy.  Why they will screw you. Focus on the children at ALL costs.
	Chapter 10: Moving Forward In this important module I’m going to talk about how to move your life forward: How to move forward with dignity and respect Rebuilding your life all over again What you must be doing with your children right now Ongoing communications with your ex wife.

Just for Getting This Far,Please Listen to This Recent Recording Where I Go Over The Top 5 Questions I Get Every Day.  Listen Here

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Time will not be on your side as you enter into divorce discussions. But, you can download this guide immediately (even if it's 2 a.m.) and begin using the information to plan your strategy and get results. If you do not have a plan, do yourself a favor and get this guide right now......before it's too late...

"Here Are Some More Of The Secrets You’ll
 Learn Inside My Informative Guide"

(for men only)

• What is really going through a woman’s head during divorce and how not understanding her will cost you dearly in the end.

• The simple thing you can do at the every day with your children to give them the feeling that Dad still loves them – pg. 56

• A proven exercise to develop a stone-cold, unshakable inner confidence that allows you to approach your divorce without losing your temper and acting irrationally  – pg. 26

• Developing your checklist of MUST have’s before going through the divorce process. – pg. 15

• How to cut your legal bill in half. (this one piece of advice alone will save you thousands) – pgs. 23 & 24

• Knowing exactly what to do when you separate and why the legal definition is so important to you. (99% of all me don’t understand how important this is) leaving her unsatisfied.  – pg. 61

• Learn how one simple mistake cost me the custody of my child – pgs. 23 & 24

• Why forgetting about a spreadsheet cost me 2 years of time and legal expenses.

• How to finally rid yourself FOREVER of the guilt and shame associated with divorce – pg. 28

• Proper care and feeding of lawyers.  How to make them work FOR you, not AGAINST you.– pg. 29

• The 5 things inexperienced guys agree to that they shouldn’t, and how ruins your chances for a quick settlement forever (Here’s what to do instead) – pg. 33

• I read all the books, listen to all the so-called experts, and tried everything to finalize matters.. It wasn't until I did THIS ONE THING that it all started to happen for me. On page 29 I'll share the single most powerful thing you can do to end the ongoing drama of divorce.

• And much, much, much more…

The best part is you don't have to wait for this book to come in the mail, or drive to a store to get it. You can download it to your computer right now. I’ve also created an audio series, so you can listen to the content in your car or from your Ipod. The course is broken up into 10 separate Chapters and organized for easy reading (or listening)

Best Regards,

Dave Duggins

Divorced and Dedicated Father

P.S. Every secret, strategy, and technique that I share with you in this book is a PROVEN winner. I know men who have used every one of them personally in real-world situations, and I know that they can work for you, too.  I wished I could have used these when I went through my divorce.  Remember, you have a 100% satisfaction guarantee - if you're not happy, YOU DON'T PAY. This is truly a 100% risk- free offer.

Don't kick yourself tomorrow, next week, or next month after you’ve handed 1 or 2 grand to a lawyer or got screwed by the system and your ex-wife because you didn't invest today.  If you are interested in more general divorce advice, we recommend www.divorce-advice.net as the best all around place to go for general information. 

I'm always looking for feedback: DivorcedDad1@gmail.com